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发表于 2018-5-15 10:26:10 |显示全部楼层
家长要培养孩子的良好习惯


  专注习惯大部分是从小养成的,如教师的多次激励,自我亮点受到肯定后逐渐固化为一种优良的习惯;再如家长的最初严管,他律逐渐转化为自律;还有从小爱读书迁移为专注学习等等。


  总之从幼儿园到小学是这一习惯养成的最重要的时期。不能专注学习者要么小时候有多动倾向,要么受到过某位教师的负面评价,甚至是一次自尊心严重受伤的批评。


  导致孩子不能专注学习的触发点尽管多样,但有一点都是普遍的,那就是孩子在成长的关键时期,家长、教师的教育没有及时跟上。


  孩子好比小树,什么时候浇水、施肥、剪枝都是有很强的时效性的,过期再补作用就微乎其微了。


  年轻的家长们一定要注意,陪伴孩子成长的父母是孩子的首席教育者,身教重于言教,如果父母做事虎头蛇尾、言而无信,就不要指望孩子能养成专注的好习惯了。


  父母是孩子教育的第一责任人,从小就要培养孩子把一件事从头做到尾的习惯,不同的孩子可用不同的方式,有的适合激励、有的适合严格要求,不管什么方式,都要长期坚持、持续下去才有力量。


  江苏泰州的洋思中学,有一个“三清”学习法,即学习任务要堂堂清、天天清、周周清。这是一个群体性专注习惯培养的成功案例,由于进入洋思的同学都能专注于学习,顽劣者在环境影响下迅速转变,学习成绩上升,行为习惯也大大改变,所以蔡林森校长敢于叫板:没有教不好的学生。

  这个例子告诉我们两个道理:


  一是教育最重要的不是教知识,而是培养习惯;


  二是教育是可以有所作为的,形成一种氛围,创造一种环境和条件,培养良好的学习习惯和行为习惯,强制学生由他律逐渐走向自律,是可以培养出专注的好习惯的。


  人的注意力是有限的,研究表明,成年人大约只能持续40分钟,儿童持续的时间相对更短,世界著名媒体文化研究者和批评家尼尔·波兹曼在《娱乐至死》中提出,随着新闻媒体的发展,信息爆炸大大增加了人们“分心”的机会。


  生活中有6%-7%的人想集中精力却没有办法。这种情况在儿童,特别是男孩中比较常见,所以,培养孩子的专注习惯特别重要。


  古语云,动若脱兔,静若处子,是说一个人动起来生动,静下来安心,才能成就一番事业。


  人最可贵就是思想,而思想的寓所就是安静的内心,安静的内心外部呈现的形式就是专注的好习惯,没有专注,一事无成,有了专注,想象和创造就会与你结伴。






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